When I was single, I think that being attached would take up a lot of my personal time but I was very willing to share my time with someone whom I think could potentially be my husband.

When I was attached, I enjoyed the courtship process a lot. I think it could be financially challenging to hold a wedding and own a house.

When I got married and owned a house, I think household chores take up a lot of a married couple’s time. Off days on Monday were spent cleaning up the house. I cannot imagine how I could cope when I have children.

When I have a baby, the household chores and things to do for a baby become so much that I have to set priorities of which tasks are more urgent to do and do them first. I cannot imagine how I could cope when I have another child.

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First times with Izzie:

On Friday, Soo Chee took half day off. He went for a haircut while I took Izzie bub on a shopping trip. It was the first time I carried her on ergo baby and still had to push her stroller (with baby bag) around. I conquered Tampines Mall and Century Square in an hour and Soo Chee was still not done. Then I went to The Box and came out with two new tops for myself. Hehe so proud of myself. Indeed I am not ‘paralyzed’ even when I have Izzie around. She was happily sleeping in ergo baby.

Today Soo Chee had to work a whole day. I did the morning chores and then changed Izzie’s diaper and fed her when she woke up. Then I brought her to the market to buy my breakfast and lunch. Yay another alone time with Izzie and a success. Hooray to new mommy, me. After my breakfast, I bathed Izzie and washed her clothes. 🙂 It is a beautiful day!